As I write this, we are sailing through the Bering Sea. It’s a rough one! The roughest waters we have been in on any cruise, which I think is over 20 at this point. Sometimes we hit a wave that takes the front of the ship up in the air and down with a bang that rattles the whole ship. This is the first time I’ve gotten a little queasy on a cruise ship.
Getting to Seoul, South Korea
On April 24, we took the train to the airport in Osaka to head for Seoul, South Korea.
Everything went smoothly until we got to Seoul. For some reason, even if the train system in a place is easy to navigate, the trains leaving an airport can prove tricky. We had problems in Osaka and Seoul with the outbound trains from the airport. Rome was no problem, but these two, we had problems with. The difference between Osaka and Seoul, is that Osaka was confusing from the get go and the people working at the train station at the airport were quick to look at the tickets we got from the machine and tell us they were wrong and direct us to a human that got us the right tickets to the right place.
Before I get into the trip to our hotel that took around three hours, I have to mention that we were also using a new navigation app - Naver (pronounced NAAver like in naval not naver like in navigate - which seems silly to me because it’s a navigation tool). Every place we have ever traveled to, we have used Google Maps to get around and it works great. In most places it will tell you what train or bus to get on, when it will arrive, its terminus, how many stops you have before you get off, and what time that will be. Same for buses. If you are taking a bus to a train or vice versa, it will show you the walk between the two and what time the next one leaves so you can catch it. Traveling would be SO much more difficult without Google or some form of GPS.
Naver is necessary, we found out, because of the laws regarding maps in South Korea. Google is not accurate in the least in South Korea. If you want help getting around, you must use Naver. That is what everyone in Seoul uses. In many ways, Naver is superior to Google Maps, giving you multiple times of arrival for buses and trains and will dynamically change your options if you miss a train or bus. Naver will tell you how many stops away your bus or train is as well as how many minutes until it arrives. It is also great at notifying you when you are on the train or bus when your stop is coming up, letting you know one stop ahead of time to prepare for exit. We think Google Maps could learn a thing or two from Naver. That is once you have learned the app. It took a few minutes of effort and a YouTube video. Once we knew, it was easy peasy.
The other day, Blaise googled if you can use Naver in other countries since it is superior to Google Maps. The answer was yes, but it will not be accurate because it only provides information for South Korea. So really the answer is “no,” right Google? What a dumb answer.
I digress.
In Seoul, we thought we knew what we were doing when we got to the airport. It was supposed to be a train and then a bus that dropped us off right in front of our hotel. Unfortunately we were still learning Naver which we learned later on doesn’t tell you what platform (like Google Maps in Osaka) or give you the terminus (like Google Maps in Rome), it gives you the next stop on that line which isn’t always readily available on signage. It is important to know what direction to go since you can easily get on the right train line or bus number going in the opposite direction from which you need to go. What was difficult for us other than learning Naver was that all trains at the Seoul airport go out. They aren’t going two directions. The airport is the starting point for all the trains, you just need to find the one that is going the direction you need to go with the stop you need without knowing the right platform.
After much discussion and confusion, we got on a train. Turns out, we were wrong and it didn’t have any stop we needed. It was a long train ride out of the airport so we had some time to learn Naver and figure out where we needed to get off the train. We opted for riding it out and getting off the train at Seoul Station, the biggest train station with the most options for trains and buses. After getting off the train, we had Naver figured out and had a plan to get to our hotel.
After a couple more trains and a bus, we arrived at the bus station right next to our hotel around three hours later. Quite the learning experience!
Our Hotel
Our Hotel was the 3S Doksan Boutique Hotel, in the Doksan area of Seoul which is totally NOT near anything touristy. This is something we don’t mind at all. We like staying in areas that are not tourist focused so we can get a true picture on life in the area and interact with regular people who are simply living their lives. We like getting that true picture of regular life in a place. We certainly got that but at the expense of time since the touristy things we wanted to do were 55 minutes or more away, requiring at least one bus and one train, often more. Nothing was a “hop on one of the many buses that stop right in front of the hotel and go straight there.” You had to hop on one of those many buses and go to a train station or hop on yet another bus. If there is one thing I hate more than standing on a train, it is standing on a bus for a prolonged period of time.
We learned a lesson on this one regarding how to find a good location for a hotel. It is fine to be in a non-touristy area so long as you have an easy way to get to the tourist sites, like being near a train station where you can catch one train there, not five trains. It’s all a balance.
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| Cool building in our neighborhood - It is a daycare. |
The hotel was interesting. We stayed there for two weeks which is fine but they had absolutely no place to put your clothes - no drawers (not a single drawer anywhere), no closet, no wardrobe. Nothing. So we literally lived out of our suitcases the whole time.
It was one of the most unusual hotels we have been to with a fancy remote control that turned everything in the room on and off, including the lights. The guy at the reception desk says “we are known for our remote controls.” I don’t know if “we” meant the hotel, or Seoul, or North Korea in general. But he was quite proud of their remotes.
The room had interesting things like a flat iron for your hair, an air purifier, and a very expensive and very large massage chair.
Getting Around
Even with a very comprehensive train and bus system, you can potentially walk a lot in Seoul.
There are just as many buses in Seoul as there are in Rome. They are relied upon just as much as trains and if you catch either during rush hour, you are standing shoulder to shoulder like sardines. But there is no noise. Everyone is quiet, like they are in Japan. If you talk on a train or a bus, you better do it in hushed tones! And the cardinal sin is talking on your phone.
Speaking of how quiet the public transport is and phones, I have to mention this. No one is standing around looking, reveling in the quietness on the trains, they have their earbuds in and are listening to and watching something on their phones. And they don’t stop when they get off the train or bus. I cannot tell you how many times we saw people walking down the street watching videos on their phones not paying any attention to their surroundings. This was so common it got annoying. Maybe this is one of the reasons the birth rate in Korea is so low.
The Culture
The culture in Korea is not hugely dissimilar to Japan. Koreans may be appalled by this comparison, but this is just how I see it. It is clean but not as clean as Japan. It is quiet but not as quiet as Japan. It’s automated, but not as automated as Japan. There are several of those types of comparisons.
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| South Korea absolutely does this better than Japan: retractable sun umbrellas at intersections so you don't burn in the sun waiting to cross the street. |
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| We saw the biggest cabbage ever in Seoul! |
Beauty Products
One of the things Korea certainly does better than Japan is beauty products. They are top notch in South Korea and you will find many of those products in Japan so I think Japan may know South Korea is superior in this area. I picked up some anti-aging eye and face cream, concealer, and shampoo and conditioner. They are definitely superior to what we have in the U.S. and cheaper!
Their big beauty store is Olive Young and they are everywhere. There are more of these than convenience stores, which is saying something in Asia since convenience stores are king in Asia! There were places where there was an Olive Young right across the street from another Olive Young. Beauty really is the business to be in in South Korea.
Kimchi
They like their kimchi in South Korea. So much so that there is a specific rule that you cannot carry kimchi with you on an airplane because of the smell.
Dogs
They love their dogs in Seoul. The dogs are just as clean in South Korea as Japan but what we saw much more than Japan is that people in Seoul would put their dogs in baby strollers. This was more common than the dogs being walked on a leash. We even saw a couple of dogs that were walking with shoes on. And they must wear them often because the dogs weren’t trying to fling them off which is what our dogs would have tried to do.
Cost
South Korea was the most expensive country we have visited on this trip but still about 20-30% less than the U.S. I suspect we will have culture shock with prices once we get back to the U.S.
The People
The people in South Korea were so kind and were quick to volunteer to help you if you looked confused. And most of the time when they helped you, they didn’t speak English. Most were speaking Korean with hand gestures.
We had a younger Korean woman who spoke English at a train station where all the signs were in Korean, stop and ask us where we were trying to go. I am sure we looked so confused as we tried to match the Korean words on Naver with the ones on the signs. Not an easy feat when they all look like intricate pictures. We told her where we were trying to go and she directed us to the right platform. Would you have done that for a foreigner in the U.S.? I am not sure I would have before this trip, merely as a result of shyness. But I certainly will now!
One day, we were stopped in a park sitting on a park bench near some elderly women and when they left, they attempted rather diligently to speak to us in Korean, even after we told them in English we didn’t understand. They just kept on going - all smiles. They seem excited to talk to us. It was sweet. I pulled out my phone and brought up Google Translate and tried to explain the live translate so we could speak to these lovely ladies. They didn’t understand and finally walked off. I am sure they laughed at us. We tried but if a conversation in Korean involves more than hello or thank you, we are out.
We had a rather sweet encounter with a man in a laundromat. We were trying to figure out the washers and dryers since everything was in Korean. An older man was there washing his clothes and pantomimed how to navigate everything for me. He just walked up and started helping. I didn’t ask. Later while our clothes were washing and he had already folded his dry clothes, I saw him get some dryer sheets out of the machine. I thought that was odd. And then when he was leaving he handed those dryer sheets to us as a kind gesture.
On the opposite side of things, we got a lot of stares. This happened more so in South Korea than any other place we have visited. So often that we both noticed. I don’t know if it was because we were both tall to them, if it is because I am taller than Blaise, or if it is because I am so tall. Or perhaps it is our stunning good looks. Perhaps not the latter. Or maybe staring is more culturally acceptable in South Korea than other countries. At times it was unnerving.
Thoughts on South Korea
Overall, we loved Korea! I think we would have enjoyed Seoul much more if our location were more central to all the sites we wanted to see. It became a bit annoying traveling over an hour to see any we wanted to visit.
South Korea is one we want to return to and spend time in the southern parts and Busan.
I’ll spend my next blog talking about the places we visited in Seoul, just to break this up into smaller pieces.
If any of this writing sounds odd, it was because I was extremely distracted by the trivia going on while writing it.















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